{"id":4361,"date":"2013-02-28T12:22:31","date_gmt":"2013-02-28T10:22:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/?p=4361"},"modified":"2013-02-28T19:35:53","modified_gmt":"2013-02-28T17:35:53","slug":"dont-help-my-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/2013\/02\/28\/dont-help-my-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;\u041c\u043e\u043b\u044f \u043d\u0435 \u043f\u043e\u043c\u0430\u0433\u0430\u0439\u0442\u0435 \u043d\u0430 \u0434\u0435\u0446\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u043c\u0438&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>I want my girls to know the exhilaration of overcoming fear and doubt and achieving a hard-won success. <\/p>\n<p>I want them to believe in their own abilities and be confident and determined in their actions. <\/p>\n<p>I want them to accept their limitations until they can figure out a way past them on their own significant power.<\/p>\n<p>I want them to feel capable of making their own decisions, developing their own skills, taking their own risks, and coping with their own feelings.<\/p>\n<p>I want them to climb that ladder without any help, however well-intentioned, from you.<\/p>\n<p>Because they can. I know it. And if I give them a little space, they will soon know it, too.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;via <a href=\"http:\/\/alameda.patch.com\/blog_posts\/please-dont-help-my-kids\">#<\/a><\/em>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8212; \u041c\u043d\u043e\u0433\u043e \u0434\u043e\u0431\u0440\u0435, \u0442\u043e\u0447\u043d\u043e \u043a\u0430\u0437\u0430\u043d\u043e! :-)<\/p>\n<p>\u041e\u0441\u043e\u0431\u0435\u043d\u043e \u0432 \u0441\u0432\u0435\u0442\u043b\u0438\u043d\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u043d\u0430 (\u0434\u043e\u0441\u0442\u0430 \u0442\u0438\u043f\u0438\u0447\u043d\u043e) \u0431\u044a\u043b\u0433\u0430\u0440\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0442\u043e: &#8220;\u0410\u043c\u0430 \u043d\u044f\u043c\u0430 \u043b\u0438 \u0434\u0430 \u043c\u0443 \u0441\u043b\u043e\u0436\u0438\u0442\u0435 \u0448\u0430\u043f\u043a\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u0434\u0435\u0442\u0435\u0442\u043e?&#8221; (\u043d\u044f\u043a\u043e\u0438 \u043f\u044a\u043a \u043e\u0442\u0438\u0432\u0430\u0442 \u043f\u043e-\u0434\u0430\u043b\u0435\u0447 \u0438 <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/molif\/status\/300341472442585088\">\u0441\u0430\u043c\u0438 \u0441\u043b\u0430\u0433\u0430\u0442 \u0448\u0430\u043f\u043a\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u043d\u0435\u043f\u043e\u0437\u043d\u0430\u0442\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0434\u0435\u0442\u0435<\/a>!), &#8220;\u041d\u0435 \u0441\u0435 \u043a\u0430\u0442\u0435\u0440\u0438, \u0449\u0435 \u043f\u0430\u0434\u043d\u0435\u0448\/\u0441\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u0435\u0431\u0438\u0435\u0448\/\u0441\u0435 \u0443\u0434\u0430\u0440\u0438\u0448\/etc.&#8221; \u0438 &#8220;\u0421\u0442\u0430\u0432\u0430 \u0442\u0435\u0447\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0435! \u041f\u043e\u043c\u043e\u0449, \u0437\u0430\u0442\u0432\u043e\u0440\u0435\u0442\u0435 \u0432\u0435\u0434\u043d\u0430\u0433\u0430 \u0432\u0441\u0438\u0447\u043a\u0438 \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0437\u043e\u0440\u0446\u0438, \u0432\u0441\u0438\u0447\u043a\u0438 \u0449\u0435 \u043d\u0430\u0441\u0442\u0438\u043d\u0435\u043c \u0432\u0435\u0434\u043d\u0430\u0433\u0430!&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I want my girls to know the exhilaration of overcoming fear and doubt and achieving a hard-won success. I want them to believe in their own abilities and be confident and determined in their actions. I want them to accept their limitations until they can figure out a way past them on their own significant&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4361"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4361\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4390,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4361\/revisions\/4390"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.optimiced.com\/bg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}